Some men need a hand held. Some men need a way out.
I don’t work with men in crisis.
I want to be straight with you about that, because it matters. My work is with men who are already functioning. Men who are holding a career together, a marriage together, a family together. Men who look fine from the outside and know full well they’re not fine on the inside.
That’s the work. Identity, belief, the stories you tell yourself about who you’re allowed to be. It’s slow work. Deliberate work. It’s not built for the middle of a crisis.
But crisis doesn’t care what my working hours are. And if you’re reading this in the middle of one, or you know a man who is, you need something faster than a coaching programme. You need a way in, right now, with no admin and no waiting list.
That’s what Just Send This is for.
What Just Send This does
Just Send This is one QR code and one link. Scan it or click it and you land on a single page that holds everything: phone numbers, automated emails, and direct links to free support, therapy, and crisis help. No forms to fill in, no account to create, no searching around for the right number at 2am. You press one button and the email is written for you. All you do is send it.
It was built by a man called Scott, off the back of his own lowest point. He wasn’t looking for a lecture or a helpline number scrawled on a leaflet. He needed a sign. Something simple enough to use when you’ve got nothing left in the tank to explain yourself. That’s the whole idea behind it, and it’s why it works.
Head to their site and you’ll find the full spread of what’s covered. Built for men. Open to all.
Use it
You don’t need to be in crisis to send this to someone. You just need to know a man who might be closer to the edge than he’s letting on. Send him the link. Say nothing else if you don’t want to. Sometimes that’s the whole job. justsendthis.com